These days, there’s a lot of misconception and mystery surrounding the female orgasm. For example, did you know that 87% of males consider it their responsibility to bring a woman to orgasm during sex?
That puts a lot of pressure on both them and the women involved, especially considered reaching orgasm as a female isn’t quite as simple as it is for guys. But good sex doesn’t have to mean achieving orgasm; read on to learn more about orgasmless sex and why it’s so amazing.
Ladies, let’s face it: most of us need some clitoral stimulation in order to achieve orgasm. But not all sexual positions are exactly conducive to that stimulation. Not to mention, we’re sometimes so busy trying to please our partners that we forget to focus on ourselves.
There’s also a lot of pressure on women to reach an orgasm during sex when, really, there shouldn’t be! Sex can be just as amazing–if not even better–without worrying about whether or not orgasm is achieved. In fact, it’s often the stress created by focusing too much on reaching that orgasm that robs us of the ability.
So, the next time you and your partner get intimate, try something different. Don’t focus on achieving orgasm. Instead, focus on what’s happening in the moment. By not having that nagging voice in your head telling you that you need to climax in order for the sex to be “good,” you’ll truly be able to let go. And that’s when you’ll have some of the most mind-blowing sex of your life!