Pull my hair and give it to me: believe it or not, sex talk will enhance your love life. It’s important to keep things fresh in the bedroom, and talking sexy and dirty is a great way to do just that.
Especially if you are new to sex talk, you need to feel comfortable with what you are saying. Try saying things that you are really thinking and feeling. Just saying your thoughts out loud is a great way to get comfortable communicating with your partner.
We’re talking about phrases like “I want you”, “I need you,” or “Oh baby that’s the spot, keep going, harder, faster.” These are all relatively basic and, most likely, honest thoughts of yours. By just talking about what you want, you will not only make it more enjoyable for you, but for your partner as well.
Once You’re Comfortable – Be Bold
After you’ve been trying some basic sex talk in the bedroom, you can spice it up even more. You should be very explicit in what you want, where you want it, and how you want it, which will drive your lover crazy. If you like it or want it rough, or want to take the reins for a bit, commanding your lover will be unexpected and take your sex to the next level.
Talking sexy and dirty to your partner is a great way to enhance your foreplay, but it also helps to keep both you on the same page. Especially if you’ve always been quiet as a mouse, you will find a new sense of sexual freedom and empowerment when you tell them exactly what you want.
Enhanced Sex Life
Once you’ve become comfortable with your sex talk, you will enjoy having your lover give it right back to you. Get playful with it, send naughty text messages or whisper something sexy in a place where it needs to be kept a secret. By adding sex talk to your love life, you’ll be adding a spice that you never knew you were missing. So take the bull by the horns and get your sexy on.