Sex for Those with More to Love: Positions for More Pleasure

Sex between an overweight couple¬†can sometimes be difficult. If you, your partner, or both of you are on the heavier side, traditional positions such as missionary can leave you both feeling unsatisfied due to the inability to engage properly. Thankfully there are plenty of positions that people with a little more to love can use to have passionate and satisfying sex. Try one, try them all, and find a new favorite for you and your lover tonight! ūüôā

1. On the Lap

This position is perfect if it’s just your man who is overweight, but it will also work if both of you are. Have him sit on an armless chair or on the edge of your bed near the headboard then climb on top, facing him. You can ride up and down while holding on to the back of the chair or headboard for support, or, if your legs and arms tire you can just grind on him back and forth. This will also stimulate your clitoris, making for an explosive orgasm. If facing him proves to be too difficult because of bigger bellies, turn around with your back to him. He can kiss and caress your back while you ride him for even more intimacy and feel-good sensations.

2. Doggie Style

This position, although traditional, is great for those who are overweight. Your vagina will be up higher, making it easier for your man to slide in. It also leaves his or your hands free for clitoral stimulation. You can get creative with this position, too, trying it different ways. If the on-all-fours isn’t your favorite, try it standing up with your hands against a wall, or have your guy bend you over the back of a couch. You get more support and he can thrust harder, which is a win-win.

3. Leg Glider likes to call this position “The Ultimate Move,” and it truly is.¬†It’s ultra-pleasurable for both partners and eliminates many of the problems that overweight people experience when having sex. (Bellies smushing together, or difficulty entering due to the gal’s position).¬†Lay on your side in a relaxed fetal position (on your side, knees bent) and have your man kneel behind you like he would in doggie style. Prop your hips up with a few pillows to make entering you easier, and have at it. You can heighten your pleasure by resting your top leg on his shoulder (kind of hooking his head into the back of your knee).

4. Countertop Coitus

This position puts you at the perfect height for your man to slide in and out, without having to worry about either of you supporting each other’s weight. Sit on a counter or tall bar-style chair and he can thrust away. You can also stimulate your clit (which he’ll get a great view of) or play with his hair to send shivers down his spine.

Whether you’ve got a little or a lot more to love, give these positions a try and bring the heat back to the bedroom.

Have Better Anal Sex Tonight: These are the Best Anal Lubes Out There!

These are the Best Anal Lubes!

Although you might be able to get away without using lube for vaginal penetration, it’s a no-no not to use lube anally. Why? The anus doesn’t naturally lubricate like the vagina does. Not using lube not only ensures that anal sex is less pleasurable than it can be, but it can lead to painful damage to your body.

Fortunately, there are plenty of personal lubricants available, so many, in fact, that you might have a difficult time choosing the right one for you. Don’t worry! We’ve got you covered!

There are generally two schools of thought when it comes to anal lubes. You go for a thicker water-based gel that’s nice and cushy for your tushy¬†or you choose a super-slick silicone option to make sure your partner’s penis or your favorite toy glides right in. However, water-based lubes can become sticky as they dry, and they’re not ideal for shower sex because they’re water-soluble. And silicone lubes can interact with toys made of silicone. Depending in your needs, you might want to try one of the following anal lubes.

Pjur Back Door Glide

Pjur is a brand known for its silicone-based lube. If you prefer something thinner but longer-lasting for anal sex, then Back Door Glide is right up your alley. It contains Jojoba to soften your skin and ease penetration. The lube will last until you wash it off, but you may want to take care not stain sheets by putting down a towel.pjurlube

Pjur Back Door Comfort Water Anal Glide

Not everyone likes silicone. For those users, there is Pjur’s water-based Anal Glide. This personal lubricant is safe for use with all your toys. One of the ingredients is¬†hyaliuronan,¬†which helps the lubricant to remain slick and not sticky as it dries. An added benefit of this ingredient is the ability to help cells repairs themselves!

Wicked Jelle Water-Based Anal Lubricant

Thin anal lubricants can drip and become messy. That’s not the case with Wicked Jelle, a water-based anal lube that’s designed to stay exactly where you put it, making cleanup a breeze. It will also cushion your anus during sex. The texture is similar to silicone lubricant.

System Jo Hybrid

System Jo brings the best of both worlds with this hybrid lubricant. It combines coconut oil, which is an ideal anal lube, with water-based lube. The result? A creamy anal lube that will make all your anal play Heavenly while moisturizing your skin. Use it with toys


because there’s no silicone, but opt for another anal lube from this list if you’re using condoms.

Swiss Navy Anal Lube

The final anal lube on this list is a premium lube from Swiss Navy. If you’re hesitant to try anal sex

, try this. Clove provides a mild numbing sensation, which can ease pain during penetration. It’s also a slick lubricant with a silicone base that won’t absorb into your skin.

While these are the best anal lubes, you’ll find personal lube for every activity at Romantix.

Why Moving In Together Kills Your Sex Life, and What to Do About It

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Moving in together is a huge step. It is such a dramatic shift from simple dating, and it changes everything; including your sex life. Sex is an important part of your relationship – so how do you save it? Here are 3 reasons¬†why moving in together kills your sex life‚ÄĒand what to do about it.

3. You’re stressed. Moving, sorting your belongings, deciding what’s important, trying to fit two complete lives into one space – that’s stressful. Stress kills your sex drive, which kills your sex life.

What do I do about it? First, talk to your partner honestly. Tell them how stressed you are; chances are, they’re feeling the same way. Then, go do something about it! Leave the responsibilities alone for a while and go have a water gun fight. Play laser tag. Get a couple’s massage. Whatever it takes to get out of your head and recapture the fun!

2. RIP routine. When you were living alone, you had a routine. You knew how long it took for you to get ready for work, how long the commute was, how long your groceries would last. You could binge watch whatever show you wanted and nobody would complain! Even your sex life was part of that routine, and now that you’re thrown off, your brain doesn’t know where to schedule it in.

What do I do about it? Give yourself time. Consciously make a new routine which meets your needs as well as your partner’s. It doesn’t sound romantic, but schedule sex! Make space in your day and your mind to focus on each other. If all else fails, lock the door, get naked, and stare at each other for an hour. Hilarity or sex will surely ensue.

1. You’re forced to confront all the gross, irritating, aggravating parts of your partner. Dating allows you to experience the best the other person has to offer, and offer the best of yourself. Now that you’re living together, there’s nowhere to hide! You’re forced to confront your own disgusting biology, and your partner’s.

What do I do about it? Get over it. Seriously, think of it like this: you are the only one your partner trusts to be close enough to smell, hear, and see his nasty humanity, and vice versa. Choose to find his annoying little quirks endearing. Make an effort to diffuse the situation. Your reaction will determine whether the nitty gritties of humanity will deepen your bond and save your sex life, or drive a wedge between you. Choose wisely!

Are you trying anal sex for the first time tonight? Check out these top-rated positions!

Are you trying anal sex for the first time tonight? Check out these top-rated positions!
Trying Anal tonight? Here are the top rated positions!

So, you’re trying anal tonight and you aren’t exactly sure what to do. You know what goes where, but what are the differences in positions and which ones are the best to try? Well here are the top rated positions (with explanations!) for anal!

1. Cowgirl

Women know that the best part about cowgirl is that you have more control of how the sex is going down. Well, the same applies for anal! Straddle your partner the way you would during vaginal intercourse and go for it. This position is less difficult to try, and great for someone who is new to anal sex.

2. Spooning

Spooning is not just for cuddling anymore. This position is not too difficult and is perfect for a slower, more intimate experience with anal. As opposed to the cowgirl position, spooning anal sex allows for rear-entry which, depending on your preferences, can be easier and more enjoyable.

3. Sidewinder

This position is slightly more complicated to get situated into than the previous two. First, you first lay down on your back with both of your legs out. Your partner will straddle one of your legs, while lifting your other leg over their shoulder. You will end up partially laying on your side, with your hips perpendicular to your partner’s hips. Once you’re comfortable, let your partner take a hold of you and do their thing!

4. Doggystyle

Most people automatically think of doggystyle when they think of anal sex, and its often the position that someone tries for the first time for anal. However, for your first time, it’s important that you’re communicative with your partner because unlike a position like cowgirl, doggystyle gives the majority of the control to them. This is another rear-entry position and that allows them to set the pace. Make sure you don’t go too hard too fast (literally) and be comfortable with asking for a decrease in the intensity.

5. Missionary

The best way to make missionary as steamy and sexy as the first four anal positions, it to create a better angle for entry. Either have your partner lift your legs up or include the use of pillows to raise your hips off the bed. Missionary can be incredibly intimate, and great for first timers who want a slower pace and an easier position to get into.

When you’re trying anal sex for the first time, its important to go at your own pace and make sure you’re comfortable. But that doesn’t mean it has to be boring! So pick one of these top rated positions and enjoy you’re first time trying anal!

Wait a second…is that for your BUM?? Here Are Our 10 Craziest Anal Toys!

Is that….. for your BUM?!?!?!

Watch out! This article will either scare your pants off (not always a bad thing, in our humble opinion) or totally turn you on! These are our 10 craziest anal toys and yes, people actually use and love them. If you want to try out one of these products yourself, remember to use lots of lube and lots of patience. Shop more of our products at or at a store near you!

1. Round Butt Plug (Medium)

This is basically one extra-large anal bead. The smooth rounded body made of soft semi-flexible PVC ensures that you’ll have a great time using it and will be comfortable throughout.roundbuttplug

2. The Victoria Triple Play

When we say “triple play” we are not joking. This massager is designed for vaginal, clitoral, and anal stimulation! The head is made of specially textured soft silicone and has a sensitive yet powerful motor made to stimulate and penetrate.

3. FF Plug 2 Fist Shape Buttplug (Medium)

With this butt plug, you will never need a human fist again! This is a realistic, fist-shaped butt plug made of pure platinum grade silicone. This means that the firmness will make you swear you have a real fist stuffed inside you, but will be soft and smooth against your skin. If you’re an anal novice, check out FF Plug 1. Best use with lube!

4. Pig Tail Butt Plug

Without a doubt, this will be the sexiest pig tail you’ve ever seen. This tail is made of nice and firm rubber to ensure it will stay put, but will be easy to clean. Oink, oink!pigtailbuttplug

5. Rosebud 1 Spec-u-Plug

Need a little something extra for your next butt plug? Well, how about one that “blooms” once it’s planted up your butt? This pure silicone plug is designed to open (and stay open) once inside you to give you a stretch you won’t soon forget!

6. Anal Fantasy Collection Vibrating Thruster 

This thruster is designer for easy insertion with its tapered tip, yet its motor will give you seven different mind-blowing vibration patterns, and three different thrusting speeds. Not to mention the suction cup base for a date with the wall or surface of your choice!

7. Pig-hole Deep-1 Fuckable Buttplug

Similar to our Pig-Hole, just deeper and wider! The shape of this plug will make you swear you had it custom-made, and its pure silicone is strong enough to hold up against your butt but soft enough to keep fucking.

8. TitanMen Anal Stretcher 6 Inch Plug

Still with us? Then check out the TitanMen Anal Stretcher for as-far-as-you-can-go fun! The 6 inch cone shape makes for easy entry, but allows anal players from novice to advanced level to enjoy what they can take. The ribbed texture takes this over the top!

9. Fetish Fantasy Series Shock Therapy Pleasure Probe

Need to shock your sex life? Well this three-inch torpedo shaped probe delivers shocks ranging in intensity from sensuous tingle to a throbbing tap, with the added option of slow or fast shock frequencies. The tapered design makes this probe ideal for either anal or vaginal play.

10. American Bombshell – Blast Balls – Cherry Bomb

Congratulations for making it to the end of this list! If you’re not already turned on then this extra-large anal beads set will catch your attention! Meant for experience anal players, these beads have three grenade-shaped bumps along the shaft. The grooved fetishbuttplugtexture increases stimulation, while the handle base and firm-yet-flexible design allows for control. This has a whopping 16 inches of insertable length and a girth of 7 inches!

Whether you’re an anal virgin or you’re stuffed on a regular basis, we hope that you’re turned on by our products! Check out all these¬†and more at!

Want to Spice Up Your Anal Sex? Check Out Our Top 8 Anal Products!

Our TOP 8 Anal Products!

This is a compilation of our best-selling, best feedback, and most loved anal products all in one sexy, little list! Shop with us at or at a store near you!

1. Her Anal Kit

Her Anal Kit

This kit includes all the anal toys that a beginner needs! Includes the Silicone Rocker Probe, the Silicone Anal Beads, and the Silicone Glider Probe.

2. Booty Call Beads

Beads are a great addition to anal sex, the best way to put them to use is to slowly remove them while the wearer is climaxing to increase the intensity! These non-vibrating silicone beads are great for beginners; they are very comfortable and not too long, and have an easy pull handle.

3. Rio Anal Vibe

This vibrating butt plug is made of super silky silicone with ten different vibrating patterns available! It has a rounded tip and a tapered body that makes it easy for insertion.

Rio Anal Vibe

4. Icicles No 66

These glass beads are great for either anal or vaginal play! Since they are larger, they provide an excellent full feeling. The graduated beaded shaft allows you to more comfortably ease into it.

5. Quaker Anal Vibe Into You

These vibrating beads are made of silky smooth silicone and have 12 different vibration patterns. With a gently curved tip and a graduated shaft, this product is ideal for beginners to anal play.

6. Sensuelle- Homme Butt Plug

This advanced butt plug is made of quality silicone and comes with a one year warranty. It is a larger size and it’s vibrations are much more intense (includes 20 different functions!).

7. Perles Damour – Pleasure Beads

Icicles No 66 Glass Wand

These smooth silicone, intermediate sized beads are great for anal play with a finger ring for easy use. Since the beads are the same size all the way down, don’t forget to use lubrication and start slow!

8. B-Vibe Rimming Plug

We saved the absolute best for last! This is our top seller and not only uses rotating beads for a rimming sensation, but also has a vibrating tip! It’s made of soft seamless silicone and can be used with a wireless remote control. This product is perfect if you want to be a little extra naughty and hand over the control to your partner for a squirm-inducing, orgasmic experience!

Whether you’re first trying out anal or you want to introduce toys to your normal routine, check out all these products and more at!

What You Need to Know When Preparing for Anal

When it comes to getting ready¬†for anal, particularly for the first time, try to adhere to our favorite saying: “lots of lube, and lots of patience!” Here are a handful of tips to follow when preparing for anal.


1. If you’re cleaning yourself¬†in preparation for your partner is a concern to you, then try out our Colt Anal Douche! Douching is¬†a way to clean out either a vagina or an anus; it works by spraying either water or a mixture of liquids up into the crevice to rinse it out.

2. Try out some sexy bottoms to set the mood! For women, try out our steamy¬†Crotchless Ribbon-Back Boyleg Bottoms! Although they can stay on during sex (thank you, crotchless!), they’re so hot your partner might tear them off! And for men, check out our sexy Apollo Mesh Jock with C-Ring!

3. When you’re preparing for anal, comfort is key! If you’re looking for a comfort cream, then try out our Anal-Ese Cream. This anal cream will help relax your muscles, keep the area moisturized, and give you enough numbing sensation so stretching out is less painful. Our Anal-Ese Cream needs time to soak in to allow the numbing agent to begin to work. This cream isn’t too numbing, it’s important that you can still feel whats happening to take care of your body and your limits.

4. Always start slow! We aren’t kidding when we say lots of lube and lots of patience. Foreplay is key when preparing for anal, and once the area is properly lubricated insert a single finger or a very small toy. The perfect toy to use is our Basix Rubber Works – Mini Buttplug; it’s as big as a finger and is incredibly soft to the touch.

5. Make¬†your way into 2, 3, or 4 fingers while you and your partner are engaging in foreplay to relax your body and loosen your sphincter. When you’re ready, we recommend using a slightly larger toy (smaller than your partner’s size) to get your body used to the in-and-out motion. We suggest our Colt Anal Trainer Kit¬†to ease your body into more (and bigger!) anal play.

6. Remember, anal is all about communication and trust. When you are comfortable enough for size entry, make sure¬†you take control and determine how much and at what speed. There’s no rush here so take it slow! If you are receiving anal, you will feel much more comfortable if you are in control of your partner, and always apply more lube if necessary! When you become used to the size of your partner, then you can work on how hard and how fast.

7. Don’t concentrate too hard on the backdoor and forget about everywhere else! Include the rest of both of your bodies (nipples, clit, testicles, inner thighs, ears/neck, etc.) to stimulate all over and heighten your experience.

Remember to communicate and take it slow, and together you can accomplish anything. Check out all the toys mentioned in this article and more at! Have fun!