Sex between an overweight couple can sometimes be difficult. If you, your partner, or both of you are on the heavier side, traditional positions such as missionary can leave you both feeling unsatisfied due to the inability to engage properly. Thankfully there are plenty of positions that people with a little more to love can use to have passionate and satisfying sex. Try one, try them all, and find a new favorite for you and your lover tonight! 🙂
1. On the Lap
This position is perfect if it’s just your man who is overweight, but it will also work if both of you are. Have him sit on an armless chair or on the edge of your bed near the headboard then climb on top, facing him. You can ride up and down while holding on to the back of the chair or headboard for support, or, if your legs and arms tire you can just grind on him back and forth. This will also stimulate your clitoris, making for an explosive orgasm. If facing him proves to be too difficult because of bigger bellies, turn around with your back to him. He can kiss and caress your back while you ride him for even more intimacy and feel-good sensations.
2. Doggie Style
This position, although traditional, is great for those who are overweight. Your vagina will be up higher, making it easier for your man to slide in. It also leaves his or your hands free for clitoral stimulation. You can get creative with this position, too, trying it different ways. If the on-all-fours isn’t your favorite, try it standing up with your hands against a wall, or have your guy bend you over the back of a couch. You get more support and he can thrust harder, which is a win-win.
3. Leg Glider
AskMen.com likes to call this position “The Ultimate Move,” and it truly is. It’s ultra-pleasurable for both partners and eliminates many of the problems that overweight people experience when having sex. (Bellies smushing together, or difficulty entering due to the gal’s position). Lay on your side in a relaxed fetal position (on your side, knees bent) and have your man kneel behind you like he would in doggie style. Prop your hips up with a few pillows to make entering you easier, and have at it. You can heighten your pleasure by resting your top leg on his shoulder (kind of hooking his head into the back of your knee).
4. Countertop Coitus
This position puts you at the perfect height for your man to slide in and out, without having to worry about either of you supporting each other’s weight. Sit on a counter or tall bar-style chair and he can thrust away. You can also stimulate your clit (which he’ll get a great view of) or play with his hair to send shivers down his spine.
Whether you’ve got a little or a lot more to love, give these positions a try and bring the heat back to the bedroom.