Finding a serious relationship with another gay man can be tough. Sure, we can go to gay clubs, but as you’ve probably noticed, most of the men there are not “relationship material.”
Perhaps at no time in history has the public been more exposed to sex. It’s everywhere — the internet, magazines, billboards, television and games. With so much fanfare, sexual attitudes have also undergone a dramatic change.
The Fleshlight is perhaps the most popular brand of male masturbators on the market, and it’s definitely the best known. Although few people would actually confuse the large case with a flashlight, the cases are relatively discreet in person. But it’s what’s inside a Fleshlight that makes it so well-loved!
The Fleshlights are available in three cases:
- The original
- The smaller Stamina Training Unit (STU)
- The subtle, smaller Flight case
When you unscrew the cap of the Fleshlight, you’ll see an orifice – vagina, mouth or anus – to penetrate. These are made of Superskin and available in various flesh tones, clear and even blue for alien Fleshlights! This is far from the only way you can customize your Fleshlight, however.
Texture is a main component of your Fleshlight. Do you want it soft, rough, tight or
loose? These are ridges, nubs, tubes and twists. It’s best to view photos of the textures to get an idea of how they differ from one another; however, what you like might surprise you.
Users swear by their favorite Fleshlight texture, and there are even websites and forum threads dedicated to the topic. You’ll find there’s no single “best” texture of Fleshlight.
Some of the most popular textures include:
- Destroya and Mini-Destroya
- Wonder Wave
- Lotus and Mini-Lotus
- Super Ribbed
Plus, you can get a masturbator modeled after the anatomy of your favorite porn star. Both Alex Texas (Texas Tornado) and Teagan Presley (Love Humps) have their own internal textures.
There’s even an attachment to connect your Fleshlight to your iPad! If you want an even more intense experience, you can get a sleeve warmer or vibrating attachment for your Fleshlight or mount it in the shower.
The final selling point of the Fleshlight is the suction, which you can control by opening the end opposite of the cap. Combined with just enough personal lubricant – use water-based lube to avoid damaging your toy – your designer Fleshlight can feel like a premium experience. Remember that added suction means added noise, however.
After you’re done with your Fleshlight, remove the inner sleeve and run warm water through it to clean. Make sure to allow it to thoroughly dry before returning it to your case. Fleshlight sells renewing powder, which will help your toy feel like new.
Find Fleshlights, lube and accessories at Romantix.
Pop quiz! How many ways can a strap-on spice up your love life and add some WOW! to your nights?
Toys that heat up, warm up and get you hot.
Light the candles, turn on your “go to” tunes for an outstanding night of sensual touch and tension release. When it is time to draw back the covers, and whether you are going it alone, or with a partner try out these heated lubricants and toys to increase your sexual sensations and pleasures tonight.
When your favorite toy is silicone and you want to keep it in great shape it is best to use a silicone lubricant with it. JO warming silicone lubricant is not only perfect for use with your favorite toy but it warms up to the touch. Try a little bit at a time with a toy or alone to accentuate touch and movement.
Whether you are playing alone or you are playing with a partner this massage oil is a great addition to your night stand stash. This oil heats up as you move with it, so you can massage it into sore muscles to release tension and then move to more sensitive parts for a stronger release. Use it on him to heat up his shaft for a hot sensation, or on her to heat up her clit, or prepare for other exploration.
This vibrator warms as well as vibrates giving you intensity on two different levels. The flexible head begins at a standard speed, and can be raised to a higher more intense pace. The vibe can then heat up setting off more of your senses and creating warming sensation that you will tell your friends about.
Starting out with eight different speeds and a shaft covered with soft silicone tufts this vibrator offers up pleasure on a special level. Like other vibrators it runs you through the speeds, exhausting your body’s sensations. However with the added bonus of a heated shaft this vibrator takes it up a level to give you a more realistic pleasure and heighten your experience and orgasm.
Just a dab on the clit and this warm and buzzy stimulant will have her rising up off the bed in excitement. A little big goes a long way and will not only warm her up but it will stimulate her sensitive parts awakening a pleasure that is hard to ignore. If you are using this with a partner or on your own it will be a must have addition to your night stand drawer.
This is an extra powerful bullet that runs quietly under the covers. Sit back and select one of the two vibration modes by simply pressing on the conveniently located button. This may be small but it packs a warm punch and will excite your insides. You or your partner can use this on the clit for an external orgasm. Add a heating lube and you’re going to have a hot and exciting night.
The warming wand heats up your pleasure sleeve and gives you a more realistic experience when masturbating with sleeve type toys. It only takes about ten minutes to heat up your toy, and that gives you time to lean back, get comfortable, and start sinking into your rhythm. Once your toy is heated up you can slide in with a standard lube, or a warming one to increase the sensation you crave.
Remember when you play with new toys or lubes to test them out first and make sure that they are compatible with your toys as well as your body. Try a little bit of lube out on a small sensitive part first and pay attention to your body. When using heated toys, try it first on the inside of your wrist to gauge the heat and how hot you want it.