Why it’s not the size that matters: Sex tips for the small penis

Sex tips for the small penis

There is a poor stigma associated with those possessing a less than giant penis size. Shows depict girlfriends asking one another how big their boyfriend’s tool is, or show men casually attempting to check out the penis of the man next to him at the urinal. There was an entire Sex and the City episode devoted to one main character’s struggle over the man she loves having too small a penis for her liking. Let’s face it, some people believe size matters most; however, this truly isn’t the case. Men can pleasure women regardless of their penis size. When it comes to great sex, or even generating an orgasm, size doesn’t matter.

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Most people have heard the old “it’s the motion of the ocean” saying. While it’s a funny phrase, it’s not incorrect. Great sex comes with the right moves, creativity, and ability to know how to hit her partner where it counts. The following are sex positions many find most erotic for the smaller-sized penis.

Doggie Style (and variations of)

Blogger Jill Hamilton explains in her article on sex positions for Cosmopolitan that, “Doggie style is great for those with a small-penised partner, because he can penetrate you as deep as possible”. She goes on to suggest having the woman arch more and bend their head to the pillow the will get more bang out of this position. Hamilton also suggests that a great variation of doggie style works by having the female lean forward over the bed while her lover takes her from behind.

Sofa Side Saddle

Sexologist Jessica O’Reilly PhD tells Refinery29, “side saddle, not only allows for full penetration, but helps the penis or dildo make unparalleled contact with the sides of the vaginal walls”. This position involves the man sitting on the edge of sofa, while the female sits sideways on his lap, slowly lowering herself onto his penis for deep penetration.

Spooning

In an article on Huffington Post, sex educator Sheri Winston also suggests that positions are key to a happy romp. One successful position she mentions is one where,”the penis owner lays on their side and the receiving partner slides themselves onto the penis instead”.

While positions are fantastic stimulation is the goal. Most women don’t orgasm simply by inserting a penis, or dildo into their vagina. Stimulating the clitoris before and during sex is often a sure way of giving one’s partner the gratification she craves. Using toy is another great way of spicing up the sex life, in a way that has little to do with penis size.

Most people enjoy changing things up in the bedroom so it’s important to always try being more creative during those intimate moments with your lover. Rest assured, size isn’t a crucial factor in a wildly erotic sex life.

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