Naughty Holiday Sweaters – Exclusively at Romantix

Holiday Party Season is here! You know what that means, the Ugly Sweater Party invites are going to start rolling in. Step up your holiday apparel game with Naughty Christmas Sweater-Tees exclusively designed and sold only at Romantix! Since we don’t do ‘ugly’ very well, these sweater-tees are extra naughty and unique. You will NOT find these anywhere else! All designs are printed on high-quality long sleeve tee’s that will add comfort to your naughty attire. Comfort and kink- it’s kinda what we do.

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SILENT NIGHT:

What’s your favorite Christmas Tradition? Bondage!? US TOO! Let your kink flag fly with this BDSM proud holiday sweater-tee and remind people that when the moon comes out, so do the Christmas lights and toys.

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3 Benefits of an Orgy – Make an Orgy Work for You

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An orgy is perhaps on everyone’s list of sexual fantasies. It’s always good to dream. While it may not ever happen, an orgy is certainly something you can benefit from in all sorts of different ways.

It Brings a Fantasy to Life

Fantasies are great to have. However, after a while, if you don’t fulfill any of your fantasies, it might be something that causes depression. Act out on a fantasy and give yourself some masturbation material for years to come.

It Allows You to Experiment

It’s a lot easier to experiment when it comes to sex when you have multiple partners at your disposal. Wanted to try DP? No problem. Want to have multiple people ejaculate on you? Just ask.

It Gives You Bragging Rights

“Hey, this one time, I participated in an orgy…” Oh, the stories you can tell, whether you’re a man or a woman. Orgies can be a lot of fun, whether there are four people involved, a dozen, or even more.

If you’re planning on being a part of an orgy, practice safe sex. Bring condoms, and Lube even if you know there are going to be some at the location. A meet and greet prior to the orgy can take some of the pressure off, too. This way, you at least know who will be there, and who you may have the pleasure of getting to know a whole lot better within the next hour.

Ultimately, it all comes down to orgies being fun. After all, we’re talking about multiple people having sex at once…what’s not to love about it?

The Down Low on a Quickie

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Quickies are great. Not everyone has time for an hour (or even 20-minute) love-making session. Sometimes you just want a wham, bam, thank you ma’am kind of frolic in the sheets. Get the down low on a quickie including when, where, and how!

When?

Ha, this is the easy one. 24/7 is the short answer because that’s the beauty of a quickie. They don’t have to take long, so think about when you’re able to meet up with your partner. Is it on the way out the door in the morning? On a lunch break? Passing each other on the college campus in between classes? As long as you have 5 minutes, you have time for a quickie.

Where?

Wherever you can find a place to drop your drawers! This could be at home, in a restaurant bathroom, in the backseat of your car, or even in a dark area of the quad. Grab a blanket if you’re outdoors and worried about getting caught.

How?

First, forget about the foreplay. You’re looking to do the deed as quickly as possible and this means that it’s about penetration and getting off.

Here are some tips to help speed up the situation and get the mood going:

  • Get your dirty talk going early
  • Spit works just as good as lube
  • Keep some of the clothes on (it enhances the arousal)
  • Use walls, counters, or chairs to help get the position right if there’s no bed

In the end, quickies are about having fun. Don’t focus on the details, just about the pleasure you’ll get from it all.

How We Love Lube: Our Top 5 Reasons to Use Lube!

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Some people are hesitant to try lube because they think they shouldn’t need it. But even people who don’t need to use lube find that it helps them have more pleasurable and longer sex. Plus, there are unexpected health benefits to using lube.

1. It Makes Everything Feel Better

Fingers? Toys? Penises? Anything you can penetrate yourself with usually feels better with a dollop of lube. Insertion is easier. Plus, you can last longer, so you needn’t worry about things becoming uncomfortable if it takes you longer to orgasm!

Lube isn’t just good for the receiving partner, either. Penetrating partners can also experience more pleasure when you add a little lube to the equation.

2. It Prevents Infection

Even if you don’t feel like you need lube, not using it might lead to tiny tears and cuts. These micro-tears can become a breeding ground for a bacterial infection. What’s more, they can make it easier to contract an STI (the person on the receiving end is always at more risk).

To get more out of your lube, look for one that has an osmolality (the measurement of dissolved particles in the solution) rating on the package. For vaginal or anal use, look for a lube with an osmolality in the range of 200 and 380 mOSM/kg. Two lubes that fall into that range are Yes lube and Aloe Cadabra.

3. Your Butt Doesn’t Self Lubricate

Anal stimulation feels good for everyone regardless of gender, but no one’s butt creates lubrication like a vagina. Enter lube! It can turn something from painful or uncomfortable to pleasurable, and the reassurance allows you to relax, which only helps with penetration.

Note that you can buy anal lubes that numb or desensitize, but you actually want to feel your body’s feedback, so we don’t recommend them.

4. They Can Add Sensations

Warming? Cooling? Tingling? Arousal-enhancing? His and hers? Flavored? These are just a few lube options available. Think of sensation lube like you might condoms that have different textures. Sure, they serve a practical purpose, but they can also be just plain fun!

Psst, a silicone-based lube can also be used as a massage product. Try it out!

5. They Can Help You Get Pregnant

Most personal lube actually has a spermicidal effect, which is important to know if you’re trying to conceive. But specifically designed TTC lubes are friendlier to sperm and help you and your partner become pregnant.

Now that you know why we love lube, we hope you consider adding some to your play time! Looking for lube suggestions? Contact us and we can help!

Your Urgent Top 5 Questions about the Benefits of Prostate Massage Answered

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1. What is a prostate? 

The prostate is a gland in men that rests under the bladder. Its main duties entail producing one of the fluids in semen and pushing ejaculation forth. It is similar in size to a golf ball.

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2. I know what a prostate massage is; it’s like a rectal exam. Why would I want to voluntarily undergo that experience, if it’s not my cup of tea? What are the benefits?

Doctors and medical professionals have long noted that, ahem, getting the pipes and plumbing adjusted has health benefits. A prostate massage is a lesser known treatment for certain medical conditions like erectile dysfunction, prostatitis, and clogged urine tubing. Prostate massage cuts down the inflammation that impacts prostatitis and unblocks the tubes needed for urine passage. Especially when one has tried all the typical therapy routes, prostate massage provides another alternative.

3. Is the massage itself painful? 

The actual procedure involves the gentle massage of the rectum with a moistened, gloved finger. Patients generally have several sessions over a period of months. Some patients report discomfort, whereas others voluntarily practice prostate massage for orgasmic purposes. Some circles refer to the prostate as the male “G-spot.” It’s rumored that prostate stimulation triggers stronger orgasms in those that practice it.

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4. So… it feels pleasant? You’ve got my attention, now. 

When done properly, prostate massage is an active part of many people’s sex lives. Stimulation with a finger induces an orgasm in some, while others can use a variety of toys. Prostate massage gives many the opportunity for experimenting with their bodies.

5. How do I sign up?

While you can always schedule a medical appointment with a provider, prostate massages at home require some prep. You need lubrication for protection from tearing and gentle entry. For more experienced masseurs, we offer a variety of prostate massagers. 

 

Contact us today for more information!