So you’re looking to try anal sex for the first time? Most people expect it to be hurt. Some expect it will be messy. But those are just some experiences. You might be surprised at what it’s actually like. Read on to learn more — and get some tips for making your first time better!
1. It Might Hurt
Yes, anal sex might hurt. After all, your anus is a tight hole. If you’re doing the penetration, the tightness of your partner’s anus might be uncomfortable for you.
However, anal sex doesn’t have to hurt. If you take things slow, make sure you’re relaxed, use lube, and communicate, pain should be minimal. One piece of advice for the person on the receiving end is to push out, which actually makes insertion easier=.
But being tense will make penetration more difficult, which may only increase pain. And if you’re not prepared for anal sex, it’s probably not going to be a good time.
Some people like anal sex the first time they have it. It can feel awesome for someone to penetrate such an intimate and tight spot. Anal sensitivity can be awesome. Plus, you might feel G-spot stimulation if you’re a woman or prostate sensations if you’re a man. Some people are surprised to realize how much they like anal sex, but it’s not true for everyone.
3. Men — You Might Not Like It
There’s a stereotype that every man likes anal sex (and no woman does), but it’s not true! Some men don’t like to penetrate their partner’s anally. You might be surprised to find this out the first time you have anal sex.
4. It May Be Messy
We are talking about the anus here. This is how the body evacuates waste. There’s always a chance for poo. Most of the time, it will be minimal, and using a condom makes cleanup easy.
You can use a douche with warm water over the toilet to clean up. But most people find that a shower after a trip to the bathroom does the trick. We don’t advise having anal sex if you’re having tummy troubles. Only you know your body, and it’s better to wait to ensure your first time goes as well as it can.
Some people love anal while others hate it. Some feel neutral to the whole thing. You won’t know how you feel about anal sex until you try it!
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