When we talk about orgasms, it’s usually from the female perspective. We want to know how to make her toes curl, or how to give her a second (or third, or fourth) orgasm. But what about the male orgasm? It’s often taken as a given; in the immortal words of Dante from the film Clerks, “Insert somewhere close, preferably moist. Thrust. Repeat.” In order to have a truly explosive climax, though, you’re going to have to put in a little more work than that. Here are our favorite tips for getting the most out of your orgasm.