3 things to do when your partner finishes too fast (so you can orgasm too!)


Is your partner a premature ejaculator? We all know the feeling – you get super turned on from the foreplay, but then you’re left hanging as your man finishes way too fast. Well do not fret! The next time the steamy tantric sex you were expecting turns into a quick draw, try these 3 things to do when your partner finishes too fast (so you can orgasm too!).

  1. Play with a toy. If the sex itself wasn’t stimulating enough for you, have your partner either use a vibrator on you or watch you while you get yourself off with it. We suggest the Hitachi Magic Wand for maximum pleasure and control.
  2. Oral sex. Sure he’s tired but don’t let him off the hook that easy. Ask him to go down on you. And who knows – seeing you enjoying yourself might help him get in the mood for a second round!
  3. Try, try again. Men can often last longer the more times a day they ejaculate, so if he’s up for a second round you might be pleasantly surprised by his stamina.

If his short stamina is becoming a pattern, try either starting out slow or have him bring you to orgasm before he gets to cum. Some men wear cock rings to delay ejaculation; many even have added stimulation for you, so why not try it out? Our favorite is the Monarch Vibrating Cockring.

Questions, comments? Contact us for more information on what to do when a guy finishes too fast, as well as solutions for chronic premature ejaculators.

Is It Possible To Have Too Much Sex?


Ecouple_iStock_000073450505_Doubleveryone knows when they aren’t getting enough sex. We recognize that our appetite isn’t satisfied in several ways. You daydream about it, even at inappropriate times. Perhaps you dream about it when you’re asleep. Your senses wake up at the nearness of someone you find attractive, and an accidental brush against their body feels electric. You feel distracted, and maybe ashamed, that you can’t get your mind out of the gutter. You might be embarrassed about how often you masturbate, but there is no other way to release the pressure of sexual frustration.

Many have never wondered what it looks like to have the opposite problem. Is it possible to have too much sex? And does being single or attached matter?

lesbians_iStock_000022673962SmallHow could a single person have too much sex? You’re likely thinking, is anyone that lucky? The truth is, if someone who is single has too much sex, it’s probably not due to luck. They’re working for it. If they’re getting-it-on almost every night, chances are, they spend quite a bit of precious time seeking out partners. If someone is spending half the day in search of a warm body, work performance is suffering, and they’re having a hard time staying awake during the day, then it’s possible they are having too much sex. In this case, things need put into perspective, and quality chosen over quantity.

It’s impossible for two people in a committed relationship to have too much sex, right? Doesn’t this just mean that they have a great relationship? Not always.
There are some signs to look for to know if you’re having too much sex.


First, listen to your body. Are you exhausted during the day, from staying up at night to have sex? Are your parts sore? If the answer is yes, then you need a break. Let your body recover, and get a good nights sleep. Is your partner less enthusiastic about your advances than they were before? Do you ever get the feeling that you’re bothering them? If so, back off a bit, and talk to your partner. Are you being productive in other areas of your life? Or are you often late for work, household chores undone, still haven’t started that new project? A yes answer, if you still manage to have sex once or more every day, signals that you could be having too much sex. Perhaps you need to take a look at your priorities. Sex is important, but life is better well-rounded. Last, do you find yourself turning to sex daily, or even more, to avoid problems in your life or relationship?



Some people will use sex as an escape, rather than confronting issues. You know if this describes you, and if it does, then you’re having too much sex. Resist the urge to use your partner as an escape, and start confronting your problems.


Sex is a big part of life and love. Just remember that it isn’t the only part. Enjoy sex to the fullest, but always be safe, healthy, and never abuse it.

Women and Orgasms: Only 1 out of 3 women can orgasm from receiving vaginal penetration alone. You’re not broken.

Woman and orgasms is often a subject of humor in movies, television shows, books and amongst friends. The typical presented scenario being that the man experiences the excitement and pleasure of a full-blown orgasm, while the woman remains disappointed, disillusioned, and frustrated, trying desperately not to show her dissatisfaction. Of course, there is a reason this is subject matter is common in entertainment and even casual conversation with pals. Women appear unsatisfied after vaginal intercourse because, well, many are! Woman’s Day magazine reports, “according to Planned Parenthood statistics…as many as 80 percent of women have difficulty with orgasm from vaginal intercourse alone”. Of course, this doesn’t seem like very uplifting news for men hoping to give their partners orgasms during sex, or for women wishing to achieve them, but there is good news. There may be a simple reason behind this statistic that in turn reveals a way of attaining climax during vaginal intercourse for those who aren’t finding orgasms coming easy (no pun intended)!


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Orgasms for Breakfast: A New Way to Waking Up

Orgasms for breakfast? Sounds delicious.

Imagine this: You wake up in the morning, like every other morning, roll out of bed and crawl to the kitchen for your daily dose of caffeine. But instead of coffee, like the average kitchen, on your counter sits a gorgeous being willing to offer you anything your heart desires.

And anything really means anything. S/he means to please you in any way they can so that you’re ready to take on your day. That includes many, many orgasms. What woman isn’t ready for some hot loving before eight or so hours of drab?

And imagine this: the orgasms energize you above and beyond the powers of any cup of coffee (espresso shot or not) and drab becomes fab. Imagine Cinderella but with orgasms.

While this is just a fantasy scenario, there are women out there actually living the dream.

Women have it great in the orgasm department since we’re able to get off on clitoral stimulation alone. Without question, having something inside is pretty great. Still, it’s comforting to know that assistance isn’t necessary for an amazing orgasm. Not everyone has an orgasm-dispenser on her kitchen counter.

And there are even benefits to this whole “having orgasms” thing besides the toes-curling pleasure of it all.

An orgasm releases oxytocin, a hormone in your brain that does magical things like make you very happy, relieve stress, take the (actual) pain away, and increase the blood-flow to your brain. Read 8 Facts About The Female Orgasm if you still need convincing.

There are many ways you can go about this:

For instance, how about joining your partner in the shower for a quickie before both of you have to do important non-fun things? Not only will each of you be thoroughly cleaned from head to toe but the rush of coming under the hot shower water will keep you energized and ready to take on the world. Never mind round two.

If you’re running a little lower on time, nothing beats oral sex in the morning.

Speaking of eating, did you know that sex burns calories? Nothing like starting your day with a nice workout that brings pleasure instead of pain. According to Woman’s Day, having sex can help you burn more than 144 calories in a thirty minute time-span. As if you needed another reason to have sex. Feeling a little lazy? You can still burn up to one hundred calories in the same amount of time through oral.

If you don’t have a partner, as there are a lot of us who don’t, give yourself an orgasm. Use your hands or a special sex toy to get yourself the satisfaction you need to start your day. There are plenty of toys out there, so you have time to discover which one is for you. Try one of our personal favorites: Lily.

No matter how you decide to take your climaxes, there’s not a single thing that would make your morning better. So how about it? Would you like some sex with those eggs?